I need my life back

3 years ago I had my life together. I had a car, an apartment, 2 decent jobs and then I met my ex. I won't go into too much detail but Let's just say it was an extremely unhealthy and controlling relationship.

I've finally gotten away from that abusive and draining situation and I just want my old life back but I need help. I lost both my jobs because I wasn't allowed to work, I've lost most of my friends and family as well for the same reasons and although I'm beginning to repair those relationships I still have a long road ahead of me. I just got another full-time job but I have a lot of bills and other necessities to take care if and hardly make enough money. I need a little head start so I can get back on my feet.