help needed

Hello, my dad was a veteran and he has passed. He was 62. He was in the navy and served time in Vietnam. He passed away the other day and i found that therw is a lot of expenses that is associated with his passing. He has helped people throughout when others needed it. He and my mom are both up in the clouds together but with out the realization that i may need help. So if you could spare anything my wife, son and i would be greatly appreciated in this hard time.