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MovemykidsawayfromAlcoholism&Bullying

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Hi, i am here to get help to move me and my kids from a mental abuse marriage and 

husband. We have been together for ten years after the first year his true colors came out. It has continually grown worse over the years. He trys controls everything i do. If my phone rings he gives me the look i have to tell him who it is, has to know what time i do everything. He has smashed up two of my laptop computers. He has ripped off every door off our cabinets in the kitchen i don't even know why he did that. i was to go for surgery in the morning and a friend was here to help me with kids after surgery and he just went in the house and trashed the kitchen and broke all the cabinets my aunt just gave us. One night i was gone with the kids and he was throwing all of me and our kids stuff in the street . One of the neighbors called the police on him and he said he was going to quit drinking after that. He quit for awhile but started back again. My daughter was being bullied at school almost the whole year at school and two of the girls live right where we stay and he was even drinking with the father of one of the girl, he even told me to bring the kids over there because he was to watch them i had a doctors appointment and i just cancelled it. No way was i going to let her go over there. But it's sad i can't count on him to take care of them. She was being  bullied so bad that she had to get on medicine for stomach pains. She would come home after school crying and the school did nothing about it. Three days before school was out one of the girls gave my daughter a horrible letter and said the other girl wrote it. Then the school looked surprised when i took the letter to them and showed them. When i had been telling them about it almost the whole year. That is why i was so shocked my husband was over drinking with him. I am just ready to get my kids into a better environment. i have told him the kids seeing you putting me down all the time and making me feel like crap that is what our daughter is going to look for in a relationship or she will think it is normal and our son will think it is okay to treat woman like they are nothing. I don't want that for none of my children. I have two boys and one girl. Two of my kids are from him and my oldest is not and my husband has treated him like crap too. I have a friend who is moving out of state in july and she told me and the kids to come with her. I have talked to my daughter about it and she is ready to go now. My husband has favoritism with our son over our daughter and he does not think he does but everyone around sees it. And my daughter can tell and it makes her feel real bad. If i can get the money together me and my kids will be in a better place and they will not have to worry if daddy is drunk or in bad mood. I would be so
grateful for any help. My parents are both passed away and don't have that support to go to. I don't want my kids to grow up thinking this lifestyle is normal.
thank you for your time
kathy

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Kathy Thompson-Arguello
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