Guess tomorrow is my 1 day break from physical therapy in the week. What to do? What to do? May relize that it was the 28th of aug not the 28th of sept I started this hospital journey. Never would have guessed I would still be here. The 1 true positive is my amazing wife is with me. I have a idea if you could donate this weekend for me each $ equals 1 rose towards my wife. Monday I will let her know how many "roses" were left in her honor for being the amazing wife and best friend I could have
Been going to physical therapy all week getting stronger. Right knee to weak to lock on its own they are looking into making a brace for it. Guess back wound is down by 50%. Both legs still numb from top of knee to ankle. I have 2 openings from surgery on wound vac. But othere then that I'm just peachy! Lol thanks for all your support in all this
Sorry I haven't posted in awhile going threw rehab is much harder then I thought it would be. I spiked a 103 fever last night not sure why
So many of you have reached out to me and my wife. I know I will never be able to thank you all the amount you deserve helping me get my life back is priceless. Sad the real of it is it does come with a giant cost even after ins helps. But you all help send me to the best and of course the best cost the most. Thank you all! I look forward to taking my wife in my arms and showing her how much a husband can mis his amazing wife.
We have been switched over to another build for rehab for my legs. Guys are talking 3 to 4 more weeks!!! Gee I can only guess at how much something like this will cost. I am asking if some how you could donate again that would really help out
Having a hard day today. Testing my mental spirit. As they start to pull back the pain meds
Not happy with how long it is taking to walk again
I was thinking most of this money will be eaten up my medical expenses and thats fine. But after Im healed inwould like to the my wife away for a romantic weekend. Please feel free to donate to the treating my wife amazing fund as she has been there 1000%
Getting stronger! But another day in a place I dont want to be. Ready to go home
For every $1 any of you give from you heart really helps us less about the money side of the giant task and focus on getting stronger. So we can get home and start our new lifes
Been in the hospital so long time starts to distort days run together. And god their food is awful. Getting random muscle spasms in my legs
My goal is to be able to get in and out of wheel chair to go for a stroll eith my wife. Been in this room damn to long
When I decided to take on this huge task of having the surgery. I understood it could kill me and tried to say my good byes to everyone. But the surgery it self has gone all but flawless and much like really life it was the things you cant really plan for that seem to be the real test. I ask for you support as there is still been no confirmation of my wifes work doing fmla thing so money is getting tighter and more time is looking to be needed
Today was hard having to have a new pickline in then PT came and helped force me stand even longer each time. Still can walk but I hope it will come soon
Took 2 supprorted steps yesterday and they took out my cathander this morning!!! Making baby steps forward
Hurting something awful hoping pills kick in soon
Second Round with none working legs. I think we are making ground. Yes pun was intended
Yesterday was harder then I had figured ot would be. It is shocking how fast you can lose abilities in something like this. What adds to the stress is know my wifes last pay day is sept 10th and they are talking sometime on Oct toll I can even come home. I did not want to ruin us money eise with this operation. But even eith ins a month long stay in hospital alone is going to me massive
Say up twice today anf got shocks and shoes on hoping to help trigger walking. Sadly no luck. Have to keep trying. And pointers for long hospital stay
Being able to think about things happen. The surgery was long and hard. The pulled me out was giving me jello and water then I crashed to 18 beats per min. I almost died. Know knowing that I can understand why it has taken over a week for my brain to come cabk online having a hard time moviing my legs at all giaint sor on my back and can go 0 to mega pain in no time. Im doing better. Laat night I slept for a good solid 4hrs and understand this could take months to get better.
Thank you all for taking a chance on me
As alot you know I am lamed up at U C irvine hospital in Orange California.
Please feel free to send get well cards to room 6831 I would love to see some encouraging words in hard copy since she does really do tje internet
My mother flew out for the surgery but can not afford to stay at hotel while she is waiting for me to get well enough to travel home. She is 67 and would want her to stay with some kind near anheim orange calfornia
Hey Guys! I just got got out of ICU and hamt my own room now. Made a lot of big progress. But I have along time to go
My Surgery is in 2 hours. So this might be my last post. I love you all and I can not thank you enough for your support in all of this. My wife is everything to me and to get a second chance to give her then man she deserves means a lot to me. I will post as soon as I can if andwhen I wake up.
I found out some shocking news today. I guess they want to remove the apron that hangs down as well which will double my recover time to almost 5 weeks in the hospital. My wife's vacation time runs out Sept 10th meaning no money coming in at all until we are able to go home. I know I have asked a lot from all of you already but any extra help would greatly lesson the fear of covering our bills at home.
In less then 24hrs I face the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. All of your support is helping me threw this and will never be able to thank you all enough. A chance to spend more time with my wife. My best friend she is so amazing and I would storm the gates of hell to spend just 1 more second with her. So know with your support I plan to go into this fighting.
Out of L.A. now in the hotel across the street from where I will not doubt he for the next 2 weeks healing. I am so scared of the giant medical bill for being in the hospital that long. I will of course try to heal as fast as I can but there are somethings we can't control
Thank you all for helping me get here. In about 48 hrs I will be in surgery and hopefully will come out a changed man able to leap tall buildings in a single bound
Just got out to L.A. the trip took a lot more out of me then anything I have done yet. 3 days and counting till surgery. I will post more updates tomorrow.
A week from today I fly out to California. I'm starting to get nervous as I have not flown out of Detroit or on Delta. I hope it goes as smooth as flying on American did. I will be post alot more as time goes on as I feel since all of you have donated and made this all possible. I owe you to at least updates of where your hard earned money is going. Thank you all again for helping this happen. I plan on making the most of this second chance at a better life
In the morning when I wake up my right hips hurts from sleeping on it all night. When I get up and move around my back starts to hurt. When I go out my knees and feet hurt if I stand to much. Then if I sit for more then 30 mins in a car seat I often have to pull over and adjust as the extra preasure on the back side of my testicles starts burning in pain. So at the end of the day when I climb into bed I exhale with relief knowing soon I will be in less pain. I do not take pain pills often as I know they are not good for me I try my best to power threw the pain
My wife told me someone at her work asked if I was in pain. My wife being a oretty private person did not answer. So I thought I would come on here and talk about my pain as I am sure some of you also wonder if I am in pain
Found out the the out of network Doctor fees could be as much as $29000 and that doesnt included the hospital costs. I would be lieing if I said I was not afraid of being in debt for this for the rest of my life.I will be keeping you all posted where all your hard earned money goes. Thank you all for helping me get cloe to a better life with my amazing wife.
I went to the Doctor on Friday and not only did I lose 23 pounds in 5 weeks but I am super healthy based on my pre surgery test I should be able to handle the surgery great and heal very fast. we fly out in about a week wish me luck
Just paid off my $1400.00 plane tickets I figured my the end of this I would have spent almost $6000.00 just in travel to get the surgery I need. Thank you all for helping me get this taken care of. I look forward to having a better life all cause of all of you.
I go for blood work friday morning the next Thursday for my pre surgery screening. Please pray that there is nothing that interrupts the Surgery on the 28th
I ordered my tickets to go back out to California on Aug 25th and hope to come back Sept 1st but it all depends how fast I can heal after the Surgery. I have to fly first class so the seat will be big enough. wich burns threw the money faster then I like but its cheaper and faster then taking the train. Wich is how I got out there the first time thinking I was to fat to fly as Kevin Smith had got kicked off the plane what hope did I have. he must have been flying couch with the 17 inch seats. first class seats are 21 inch on most planes now. thank you all for helping me be able to do this I look forward to paying it forward. I am scared about putting us so far in debt we will never see the light as we work very hard not to be in debt other then our house.
Setting up my pre surgery exam and blood work for next week. Got my first medical bill for the surgery for $8500.00 if that is a hint of how pricey this is going to be I am in more trouble then I thought. And on top of that I dont overly care for needles. Wish me luck. God knows I'll need it
Back home! Trying to relax a little befor needing to head back out for my surgery at the end of August
As we still have no idea what the total cost of this surgery will be at the end. Just the getting out her and back home twice is costing a small fortune for a guy of my size. Plus my wife and hotel stay for a week each time pre op and not know hotel cost for my wife post op as I will be trying to heal as fast as I can to get home. This first out is looking to cost around $6k. Thank you all for your support and thank all of you that can still donate a few bucks every dollar gets me closer to being with my wife as a man she deserves
As many of you know I went to my doctor appointment today.
When he first saw my growth he studied it and was very postive that not would it be easy to remove but my skin was healthy and feels my recovery would be fast.
He said he would start the paper work but sometimes it takes the ins companies months to get everything in order.
He comes back 30 mins later letting me know its been approved and the look to do do my surgery at the end of August!!!
We are here in California and meeting with the doctor tomorrow morning. I will post the info tomorrow.
in the big town
Want to take the time in my journey to California to see the Doctor I need to see and say thank you. With out all your support none of this would be happening right now.
On train still heading to Los Angeles tomorrow morning. We are riding threw Colorado right now
Super tired on train. The movement and noise only let me get maybe 2 hrs of sleep in Kansas right now
Went to pool today with our new friends Ross & Emily. Tomorrow 8am We get on the train to California.
I changed the video and will add more on our way to California
Went to the pool today and goyt a couple laps in. Body feels a little better but still tired. Spending tomorrow resting as much as possible
I hurt today. I think I over did it. Trying to do to much to get ready for trip. I wish I could do more but this damn growth just wears me out to fast. But I will beat this thing. I have to.
I will of course keep you all updated as to how things are going. Heading to California on the 22nd to meet with the doctor on the 25th. And will hopefully know when my surgery will be
Saw one of my best friends today. Aka my little brother. It was really nice going out, made me feel normal for at least a little awhile anyway. I hope someday to be able to be as important to him as he is in my life. Thank you Jason for being there for me.
You have all been amazing. It touchs my heart to think a thousand people feel for me so much to donate towards me and my wife to have a chance at a better life. That completely blows my mind. Often we see the world as a dark non caring place. How wrong we are. I will never forget any of you and how you reached into your pockets and gave to a couple that will forever be in your debt. My wife's happiness to me is worth more then anything and that is what you are helping me give her. And for that there will never be enough thank yous to say
Getting nervous as the 22nd of July is coming fast. Heading out to California to see the doctor and get the date of the surgery. Thank you all for the support. I would not have been able to do this without all of you.
I did a radio interview in Toronto today and am so happy to spread the word about this problem. If I help just 1 person from having to go threw what I am going threw it is worth all the personal questions. Thanks to all the people that are supporting me in this and with everyone's help I know I will someday give my wife the man she deserves.
We have our train tickets and heading out for the Doctor Consolation. Thanks to all of you. Not sure what the final costs for everything will be for sure but with your added help I am sure we will raise enough to get it done. Please share this on facebook and Twitter
and help get the word out there
I just added the video that has my amazing wife in it. she has always been there for me and I hope to be able to repay that favor someday. thank you all for your amazing support and we look forward to sharing our story with all of you.
I did a interview with a radio station in Dublin yesterday. Hoping to get the word out all over the world about this type of problem. And I can not do it without you
Getting excited as We leave in less then 30 days. Thank you all for your support. I truly hope Enough has been donated. The last thing I want to do is put ourselves any farther in debt. My wife works very hard to support me and it would really bother me to put more strain on her.
this is the first video done there are a handful of others that I am working getting posted
this is the first video that was done
As a guy I have made many bad choices. 1 to many drinks, saying something I should not hav the list goes on and on. But wen it came to picking a mate for life I could not have picked better. I love you my amazing wife how truelly lucky Iam.
my amazing wife my rock my love
Gofundme removed 30 fake donations and seems to have gotten control for now thank you all for understanding this craziness
1 they are using stolen credit card numbers and I have contacted gofundme and they are working on it
2 based on Wesley Warren's story he was quoted the surgery that the surgery cost would be 1 million. I have ins and if they were willing to cover 80% that would still be $200k and that was the starting amount.
3 it was lowered to 20k to cover the costs to get to the doctor 2 times and starting fees.
4 then the story went viral and links leading over 40,000 people to my page.
I am afraid if the goal is reached those links will no long work.
5 I plan on stretching every penny I get to not only get back to a much better health but to help others suffering from this as well
Because of the vast exposure all over the web and all the links that bring all these great people together here. And I dont know how much this will be for sure at the end. I have to increase the goal amount cause of the fake donations. cause if the goal gets reached all those links will no longer be any good.
Please note that the random letters donations are fake! Some people are very bored and want to mess with a good cause.
My wife wants to send a shout out to all the women out there donating for her to have the man she fell in love back.
I want you all to know I plan on updating pictures and videos this weekend
My wife and I are so blown away by the support all of you have shown us. Please know we are excited about the hope of a new future.
I want to take a moment to thank everyone for the amazing support. Not only for me but for my wife as well. It is very touching all the people reaching out to help. We feel very blessed. I am trying very hard to keep up with sending out thank you emails out to everyone. But as you can imagine not a easy task. I pride myself in making sure to thank everyone of you for helping make my life better. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Good night and see you all in the morning.
Thank you so much. Please share on facebook. More exposure the better.
I want to thank all the people that have donated today. You have really given me hope in people's kindness
I was just touched by Heather and Derek by them giving what they can to help. Even $1.00 gets me that much closer to the goal. A person that gives from the heart with no expectations of getting anything in return are rich where it counts
I want to say thank you to all of you. I am so touched by your giving spirit. I look forward to the possible future and hope to make you all proud.
I took a little time to post my first of many videos to come to let people know how things are going.
Sorry I have not posted a update in awhile I have had a cold since last Thursday and one of the side effects of this damn hump is it draws on you so it is easier to get sick and takes longer to get better. Hence why it is so important to have it removed. Again it has touched me deeply seeing all the support people have shared with me. But we have a long way to go. So if you could please share this on facebook maybe included a funny story about me that would be awesome. The more people that see this the more chances of reaching our goal
Progress update. We have talked with the doctor's office and it is looking like we will need to go to California twice. So any support you can afford would be amazing. Even if you can't afford to donate please share and repost it to everyone. Thank you all for taking your time to think of me
I thought I would offer and answer any questions you might have. Please feel free to ask. Please share this
Wow I am feeling so loved. Thank you all for your support. I will for sure keep you all updated. Even the ones that just share this with their friends the move people that see it the better. Thank you all again from the botton of my heart.
Hello my name is Dan. I have Scrotal Lymphedema and the doctor that specializes in that type of surgery is who I would prefer to remove the 75 pound growth on my abdomen is not covered by my insurance. Please help me get this done as I don't see any other way to live a semi normal life. Thank you for taking the time to read this and god bless. The 20k goal was to cover the first projected expenses. With not knowing what the total cost will be, The goal amount will change. I look forward to paying forward all the kindness.